Family 2.0

    A lot has been written about the effect of social networks, blogs and other Web 2.0 in general on real life. The fact that this is a gap in the foundations of society that has developed over the centuries, the New Era. And indeed, I thought, stroking my shirts last night, while my beautiful wife was surfing the Internet, nothing undermines the foundations like changing the foundation. In our case, from time immemorial, the basis of society has been the Family (1.0?) - the father-breadwinner, the wife, the mistress and support children of old parents.
    “Why are you ironing shirts with your wife alive?” - An inexperienced reader will ask, the answer is as simple as moving a mouse - because I WANTED it so.
    So,
    Rule No. 1 of Family 2.0: do what you WANT. Why all these conventions and patterns? Do you want - my dishes, you want - smooth shirts, you want - cook food, you want - watch the Internet, not paying attention to the traditions and opinion of the crowd. Do you want to walk upside down? - you are welcome! Of course, you need to listen to the opinions of the other members (participants?) Of the family, which implies
    Rule number 2 : ESTIMATE and HEAR the ratings. Your "weight" in the family depends on the assessment of your actions. Moreover, the assessment of others and just passersby does not matter, the main evaluators are your relatives. If the assessment of your actions is negative, then it’s just right to think about a change in behavior, if the assessment is extremely positive, then this is an occasion to rejoice. Of course, you yourself must take an active part in evaluating ALL actions, not keep anything in yourself, notice the little things. It is very simple to say in passing: “Thank you for the clean dishes”, how simple and how important!
    Rule number 3 : MOBILITY. Family 2.0 is mobile. This, of course, does not mean that we should live in tents and cook at the stake, no, this means that the time between the decision to go somewhere / go / fly and the action should be minimal, because this is an extra reason to get new information, new impressions.
    Rule number 4 : INFORMATION = information + well-read. You are always up to date with the latest REAL events (not tales from television news), you have something to say in almost any topic of the conversation, you know WHERE to find the information and you GET and USE this information. Needless to say, among themselves, members of Family 2.0 are engaged in rich, healthy conversations.
    Rule number 5 : taking care of your HEALTHshould become as much a part of everyday life as caring for each other. Instead of evening beer - a short run, instead of the morning television "Talk Show" - charging. And in a healthy body, a healthy mind and a healthy attitude towards others and in general EVERYTHING is HEALTHY!

    Perhaps for our society these rules are still alien, but if you strive for this, it will be nice when our HEALTHY children want to easily break up to us to say Thank you and tell the latest news from their interesting lives.

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