December 17, 2013 at 17:27Unrealization kills or how not to become a drug lord
Prologue.
- Skyler ... Everything I did ... you have to understand ...
- What, again, I have to listen to what you did everything for the family?
- I did for myself.
-?
- I liked it. And it turned out. And I lived a full life.
Breaking bad. Season 5, episode 16.
If you saw this great series and remember this dialogue, then you will feel this article much deeper, but for those who made a mistake and did not watch the series, I advise you to fix this situation right now. The article is narrative-moralizing, based on my experience and knowledge.
Have you ever wondered what is the global cause of depression and aggression that is filling our world? Why do some climb the Olympus of Glory, while others become social outcasts? Some go to monks, others go to crime.
The questions are really not simple and I will not consider all aspects, but I will concentrate on the most significant and numerous in my opinion.
Unrealization makes people weak, and the older a person becomes, the more often he thinks about it. When I was 18, I did not think at all about whether I would be able to make a career by 30, and what could be there, I did not understand at all which profession to choose. We are being released from school with a certain amount of generalized knowledge that we don’t know how to apply in real life (why is there no subject “Profession Choice” at school?) I chose the faculty at the technical school and institute as a blind kitten, I liked computers, and at that moment I thought that I liked programming, and therefore I chose programming as my profession. To hell! All this was not mine. Although I graduated very well from college and somehow graduated from a college that bored me, I began to realize that I was not doing my job. After college, I accidentally started doing web design,
Suppose my story is average, still, many by trial and error find their vocation by the age of 25, but there are a considerable number of people who wander aimlessly through life. They do not find their job, they do not have a hobby, they do not play sports. According to my observations, if you start to launch one sphere of life on its own, then the rest often fall down. In a life where everything is interconnected it will not work out to live only work or only family, each of us understands this and is always in search of his own balance.
The scheme of personal degradation looks like this:
If you go back to the series and, in particular, to the hero Walter White, then what happened to him? He once refused to work in his own company, Gray Substance, and when it soared in value to heaven, it began to put pressure on him, because it was his brainchild, and Walt did not realize himself in the company. And then lung cancer, which crosses out all his plans. The genius of this series is how harmoniously shown is the transformation of an ordinary school teacher into an inveterate unprincipled killer. The genius is how imperceptibly for many he brings an important message - realize yourself and your goals now in legal and honest conditions, otherwise the time will come and you will have to cross the line. I do not claim that you will go to find a place under the sun with arms in your hands, but your unfulfillment will greatly affect your future life and your environment as a whole.
By default, people who have not realized their potential usually sink to the bottom of the bottle, less likely to go into drugs, and other social consequences are known (see diagram above).
Realization in life is tightly connected with such concepts as responsibility and choice.
Each person on this planet is given the opportunity to take responsibility for his life. Starting from the Papuan New Guinea and ending with the leaders of states and corporations.
We can all live by the principle that nobody owes us anything. When we were ancient hominids, no one was supposed to get food and make clothes for us, nothing has changed in modern society. Yes, there were states and governments, salaries and taxes, and this actually has not changed anything, the principle is the same. Not a single person has yet reached great heights screaming everywhere that he has not been given enough state, family or grandmother. Live on your strengths and abilities, do not wait for gifts of fate, achieve everything yourself. Those my friends and acquaintances who have realized this principle have ceased to be whiners and make themselves.
After taking responsibility, the choice comes. Right now you have chosen to read this article, someone has chosen to go to the bar or lie on the couch and watch TV. None of these options are good or bad, they are neutral. During the day, we make a choice a thousand times. Only each such choice either leads to your goal, or not, or develops, or makes weaker.
Scheme of personal evolution:
Ecological development of a person is possible only through responsibility and choice, through small steps every day we are able to get closer to our image of a successful person. This is a cyclical work on oneself and one’s actions. Full realization will never come, otherwise it would mean the end of development.
And here it would be possible to finish the article, but I would like to share with you a tool with which you can more organizedly achieve your goals, seek support from other people and share your experience. SmartProgress
Serviceis a platform where anyone can find something of their own. It will be interesting for some to draw up their action plan and constantly publish reports on the work done in the diary, others will like to use the ready-made training template, while others will appreciate the various motivational SmartProgress techniques.
In a cozy environment of like-minded people like you, achieving goals will seem like an exciting experience.
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- Skyler ... Everything I did ... you have to understand ...
- What, again, I have to listen to what you did everything for the family?
- I did for myself.
-?
- I liked it. And it turned out. And I lived a full life.
Breaking bad. Season 5, episode 16.
If you saw this great series and remember this dialogue, then you will feel this article much deeper, but for those who made a mistake and did not watch the series, I advise you to fix this situation right now. The article is narrative-moralizing, based on my experience and knowledge.
Unrealized goals.
Have you ever wondered what is the global cause of depression and aggression that is filling our world? Why do some climb the Olympus of Glory, while others become social outcasts? Some go to monks, others go to crime.
The questions are really not simple and I will not consider all aspects, but I will concentrate on the most significant and numerous in my opinion.
It's about our own unrealization in life.
Unrealization makes people weak, and the older a person becomes, the more often he thinks about it. When I was 18, I did not think at all about whether I would be able to make a career by 30, and what could be there, I did not understand at all which profession to choose. We are being released from school with a certain amount of generalized knowledge that we don’t know how to apply in real life (why is there no subject “Profession Choice” at school?) I chose the faculty at the technical school and institute as a blind kitten, I liked computers, and at that moment I thought that I liked programming, and therefore I chose programming as my profession. To hell! All this was not mine. Although I graduated very well from college and somehow graduated from a college that bored me, I began to realize that I was not doing my job. After college, I accidentally started doing web design,
Suppose my story is average, still, many by trial and error find their vocation by the age of 25, but there are a considerable number of people who wander aimlessly through life. They do not find their job, they do not have a hobby, they do not play sports. According to my observations, if you start to launch one sphere of life on its own, then the rest often fall down. In a life where everything is interconnected it will not work out to live only work or only family, each of us understands this and is always in search of his own balance.
The scheme of personal degradation looks like this:
If you go back to the series and, in particular, to the hero Walter White, then what happened to him? He once refused to work in his own company, Gray Substance, and when it soared in value to heaven, it began to put pressure on him, because it was his brainchild, and Walt did not realize himself in the company. And then lung cancer, which crosses out all his plans. The genius of this series is how harmoniously shown is the transformation of an ordinary school teacher into an inveterate unprincipled killer. The genius is how imperceptibly for many he brings an important message - realize yourself and your goals now in legal and honest conditions, otherwise the time will come and you will have to cross the line. I do not claim that you will go to find a place under the sun with arms in your hands, but your unfulfillment will greatly affect your future life and your environment as a whole.
By default, people who have not realized their potential usually sink to the bottom of the bottle, less likely to go into drugs, and other social consequences are known (see diagram above).
Realization in life is tightly connected with such concepts as responsibility and choice.
Responsibility and choice.
Each person on this planet is given the opportunity to take responsibility for his life. Starting from the Papuan New Guinea and ending with the leaders of states and corporations.
We can all live by the principle that nobody owes us anything. When we were ancient hominids, no one was supposed to get food and make clothes for us, nothing has changed in modern society. Yes, there were states and governments, salaries and taxes, and this actually has not changed anything, the principle is the same. Not a single person has yet reached great heights screaming everywhere that he has not been given enough state, family or grandmother. Live on your strengths and abilities, do not wait for gifts of fate, achieve everything yourself. Those my friends and acquaintances who have realized this principle have ceased to be whiners and make themselves.
After taking responsibility, the choice comes. Right now you have chosen to read this article, someone has chosen to go to the bar or lie on the couch and watch TV. None of these options are good or bad, they are neutral. During the day, we make a choice a thousand times. Only each such choice either leads to your goal, or not, or develops, or makes weaker.
Scheme of personal evolution:
Conclusion
Ecological development of a person is possible only through responsibility and choice, through small steps every day we are able to get closer to our image of a successful person. This is a cyclical work on oneself and one’s actions. Full realization will never come, otherwise it would mean the end of development.
And here it would be possible to finish the article, but I would like to share with you a tool with which you can more organizedly achieve your goals, seek support from other people and share your experience. SmartProgress
Serviceis a platform where anyone can find something of their own. It will be interesting for some to draw up their action plan and constantly publish reports on the work done in the diary, others will like to use the ready-made training template, while others will appreciate the various motivational SmartProgress techniques.
In a cozy environment of like-minded people like you, achieving goals will seem like an exciting experience. Project Details