Freedom to parrots and ... women

“If you love a woman, give her freedom! If she comes back to you, she will never leave you again. If she left you, then she would never be with you! ”

- one of my acquaintances spoke up.
     A very strange position, but if we assume that it was the girl who said it, then, in principle, there is nothing strange. In this article I will write what exactly I think about this.
     And so, according to her, if you love a girl, then you must give her full freedom with the words "I will wait for you ..". Why? Why should I wait? Why should I wait for someone? Naturally, freedom is necessary for any person, but it is in this context that it sounds rather ridiculous and defiant.
     “If she comes back ...” How did she get that someone would wait while she walks up and return to her warm hands with the words “dear, I will now be with you” ... How “dear” you can be sure that tomorrow she will not tell him this 32-word phrase, referring to the fact that “She has not returned yet ...”? “If she left you, then she would never be with you!” If she left you, it means she would be with you if you would feel good together (naturally, cases with the “girl for the night” are not considered here). If a girl behaves like this in life, then she will not see normal guys, because if after the phrase “give her freedom” it will go “if she comes back to you ..”, an adequate young man will understand that he is being used as a “spare aerodrome"…
     It is also true that freedom to want to walk “out with that guy” is good. Even if he walks. And if after that she switches her attention to him (even in thoughts), then this already means that she has not returned. That is, if she can freely choose and at the same time she chooses you again, then “she will never leave you again”, otherwise “she has never been with you” (and she was waiting for the option even a little better).
     But the fact that she “was waiting for an option even a little better” infuriates me, because instead of enjoying her bright feelings or sorting out everything, she “waiting for an option” did not say anything to her soul mate ... Since these “attention switchings” "Often skillfully hide, I tend to relate to this a little easier and do not think too much" about her attention to others. "
     No, don’t think about it, I classify myself as quite jealous people, but it’s not normal to be jealous of each look at the other guys.

I respect the opinions of people, so I do not blame her. But God forbid someone to meet a girl with a similar life credo.